Monday, July 16, 2012

Relationships/ Love


Love.. Oh there are so many things that could be said about it. However this is how I view love... When you love someone totally with all your mind, it means that you're cognizant of the love you have for that person. It doesn't fluctuate, it only increases with time. Since you're fully aware of that love, then every beat of your heart confirms it and sends a pulse through your veins. So now the love you have for that special someone is all over your body. Love conquers all.

When in a relationship and you experience difficult times just take a moment and think about how much you love that person and ask if the the argument is even worth it. There are ways to resolve conflicts without letting the your partner feel inferior or  yelling at each other. Also be willing to admit when your wrong.. saying sorry can make such a huge difference even if you aren't the problem.

When you love someone you treat them and love them the way they want to be loved. In relationships, you have to to be understanding and know that not everyone loves the same way. Don't go in a relationship trying to change the person, you would only be setting yourself up for failure. Love the peron totally for who they are and in due time, if something needs to be worked on, with prayer and a willing heart, God will mold the both of you in the person he wants you to be. 

Most importantly respect one another, and apply the golden rule( do unto others as you would have them do unto you). Spend time together. Men- romance your woman, do something special for her, let her know, not just by words, how you feel. Women- Respect your men, allow him to be the man.. Love and cherish each other.

Now the most vital part is seeking the Lord's guidance, stay prayed up. Have worship together and grow in the Lord. 

Mental Kryptonite


Reluctantly, where I had walls built up, I opened and let you deep within,
impressed by your smooth words and your touch.
I was scared because this was my first time. I knew (well I thought) you had no other concubines.
At first you were gentle, each movement was rhythmic, boy you had me tied up.
You were the water that flowed through my body like springs.
Whenever you came by my lustful nature would automatically chant moans that grew louder with every pulse.
Surely, I was longing for you because I knew you were longing for me, for us to intertwine, in my body's ravine.
I smile (oh there’s nothing more tempting than a woman’s smile) because I know that what we have going on right here, right now, is something like utopia.
OOoh when I'm around you it's nothing like a phobia.
Our conversations start out subtle, then the unimaginable happens; Our bodies start to erupt like a volcano.
But we failed to escape quickly so we started to ignite.
It was at this moment that I realized you were my mental kryptonite.
We both wanted it, but truth is you weren’t ready for the consequences, because now months later you’re no longer near.
All I have left is a reminder, you’re sown seed ..  my bundle of joy growing in here.
Wait…. That’s not how this poem ends, I woke up..  so your hearts can begin to mend.
I’m finally able to comprehend that this isn’t the way God has it envisioned …
But if I continue to on this path ill definitely screw up the mission.